...here's more from "The Dark Side of the Adult World" department.I heard today of an e-mail that was received from an angry parent.
It sent me into a personal tizzy again. (I really need to stop letting that happen.)
In my own head, I was outraged and pissed off at this parent.
I thought of my own parents reaction when I told them about what I did. (...which was to say, "Well, it's not what I would have chosen for you, but if you are going to do it, I am going to have to try to understand it some more.) THANKS Mom and Dad!
I then try to reason with myself and think of the other person's point of view. It was harder in this case because I am biased. (...and trying not to be, especially when I report.)
...then I keep thinking of how narrow minded this parent was to write a note that reads in part;
What you are doing with my son <...> is against all morals and a disgrace to society.
How can you live with the sins and disgrace that you are causing to all the boys envolved in this explicit pornorography.
This type of recruiting should be against the law <...> others involved in persueding my son to do these disgraceful videos just so that you can envolve young nice looking boys into your sinful world of porn.
This is against all of his values and respect that he was taught to have for himself and his own body. His family is in disgrace over these videos that have been posted on the internet.
This company should be shut down <...>.
Yes, my son in in need of money but this is the most God awful situation that you could possibly allow these young boys to get into just to make a couple of dollars.
I'm sure others along with his family will agree to taking whatever action is needed to stop this recruiting of young boys where you are offering them money to distroy there lives and reputation now and for the rest of their lives.
I'm sure the press and others would also like to know what is actually going on on the internet.
You should be assamed and so should everyone involved.
Respectfully Submitted,
<...>
Did she say "respectfully?" Really? Fuck that.
I am disgusted by this letter.
Everyone makes their own choices with the exception of a few isolated incidents that are certainly not the case here.
The performer contacted the company and of his own will engaged in filming.
No one forced anyone to do anything, and legally pursued his own options in his performance.
Cases like this happen here and there, but it floors me that an adult parent would send something like this. Yuck.
Some of the things I always tell new porn stars and escorts are;
"If you think no one will find out about this, you are only fooling yourself."
"The minute photos go up online, they are there for good."
"Prepare yourself for when the people you don't want to find out about it, find out about it. It's gonna happen, hot stuff."
Recently I battled with my own, "What the fuck am I doing?" issue, but this is too much for me to handle.
...after sorting that out with close friends and myself, I know I speak for more than just myself when I say I hope that this performer is proud of sharing his beautiful body and his talents with the world.
